This was our last straw.

A movement born from frustration, fueled by hope, and built on the conviction that together, we can become the storm that breaks the dam of hate.

Our Story

This is a personal project, so I want to start with a personal story. I'm a white, straight, cisgender man. For much of my life, I moved through the world without having to question whether I was safe, welcome, or belonged. My comfort was a privilege I didn't fully see, one built on systems that oppress others.

The Last Straw

Over time, that comfort began to feel like complicity. I noticed the gaps, the harm that wasn't being named—especially by people who looked like me. Then something clicked: the simple act of speaking out against hate had started to feel risky, like stepping out of line. That chilling realization was my last straw.

The feeling crystallized one Father’s Day weekend. Driving with my family, we passed a protest, sparking the familiar, helpless question: "What can one person with a job and a family actually *do*?" I knew there had to be others like me—people who see the rising tide of hate and want change, but feel unsure where to start. At breakfast, I joked, “What if we took back ‘bro culture’ for good and called it a ‘Brotest’?” It started as a joke, but the idea stuck.

From Symbol to System

At first, the idea was just a signal, like a hat, so silent allies could find each other. But a symbol is passive. A promise isn't enough if you're still just standing by. We needed a *practice*—something active that could create real change.

That realization sent me into the work of activists, writers, and educators. I had to confront the hard truth that while I had privilege, I wasn't using it. The more I learned, the more I understood that the public silence around injustice isn't an accident. It’s a feature of the system, designed to keep us disconnected and quiet. The mission became clear: we had to create safe ways for people to learn, grow, and break that silence together.

Making Action Approachable

But how do you practice solidarity? In a conversation with a friend, we hit on it. I’ve always loved games and scavenger hunts. What if the practice was a game? Not to make light of the problem, but to make the work *approachable*. To turn huge, abstract ideas into small, tangible actions—single "drops" of change. That’s how Jourop was born.

This whole project is the result of that journey. It's a way to turn frustration into fuel and privilege into a tool for change. It's a training ground, built on the belief that many small drops can, and will, become a storm.

What This Is

Brotest is a movement for people with privilege—especially men—to turn frustration into action. Through simple, joyful acts of solidarity, we aim to erode hate one drop at a time.

Brotest

The promise. The 'why'. It's the focused eyewall of our storm—a commitment to:

  • 🌀Check Our Privilege.
  • 🌀Redefine Strength.
  • 🌀Practice Solidarity.

Jourop

The proof. The 'how.' A shared Journey of Drops—small acts of courage that serve as an on-ramp to deeper engagement. Found, completed, and hidden again.

A "drop" might be:

  • Listening to a podcast by a trans activist.
  • Leaving an anonymous note of support in a men’s restroom.
  • Buying from a Black-owned business and sharing why.

A Word About the Name

Let's be direct: the word "bro" is loaded. It often stands for the very culture of toxic masculinity and exclusion we're working to dismantle. So why use it?

We chose the name Brotest intentionally, not to celebrate "bro culture," but to subvert it. It’s a hook designed to reach men who feel disconnected from traditional activism but recognize that something is deeply wrong. It's an invitation to use a familiar word to start an unfamiliar, necessary conversation.

This isn't a movement to make "bros" comfortable. It's a movement to challenge them. By co-opting the language of the problem, we aim to turn it into a tool for the solution. The name gets the attention; the work is what matters.

Ready to stop standing by? Join the storm.

This is more than a game; it's a training ground. Join us and turn your frustration into meaningful practice.